Couple/Relationship Testimonials

What People Say about these Sessions

"I want to thank you again for all the help you have given my husband and me. Both of our lives have benefitted tremendously as well as improved from just a few months ago. There has been a very obvious improvement re our communication and interaction with one another.  Our triggers have diminished considerably and we are becoming much more effective at problem solving and conflict resolution. This year has gone by in the blink of an eye, and at this time last year I was literally ready to throw in the towel.  What a difference you have made for us.  It's really nothing short of a miracle in my opinion. Thank you from the bottom of my heart." -- (Karen, San Diego, CA)

"Before there was just almost waiting for the spots, so we can get angry about it, and have an argument about it, and me just knowing I'm going to be misunderstood, and not agreed with on it. And now, at least as far as I'm concerned, I'll say the exact same thing I used to say, and my partner will go, "Oh, yeah, I got it." And I'm like, "I'm so glad! I don't have to go over that one again." It's either the way I'm saying it or the way she's hearing it. We thank you, Jane, for helping us." -- (K.J., Carlsbad, CA)

"Before working with Jane Cohen, I was considering divorce or severing my marriage. I was really at wits end, and not sure what I could do. I was unable to express myself in a positive manner. I wasn't clear on what I wanted. I did not value myself. Working with Jane gave me back my power (to be me) without destroying my marriage. We worked through many limiting decisions which were holding me back. I will name a few of the limiting decisions (or deeply ingrained beliefs set in place for years) that we were able to clear, and which greatly impacted my ability to relate to my husband in a positive way. They were: "Women are less powerful than men", "Men are irresponsible and will ruin everything if allowed", "Sexual pleasure is bad", "Women are not valuable and only have value through their man."

To work with Jane was a true gift. I am thankful I found Jane Cohen when I did, as I am living my life from a place of joy, and truly from the heart. I am content to be me..."(C.G. Encinitas, CA)

After many different therapists I found a terrific lady counselor in San Diego. Jane has the right 'core' personality and is very intuitive about fundamental relationship problems. Her methods are different from traditional counselors yet very effective. Each session brings immediate results. It's such a relief and you're all calmed down."  (Jim Billings, San Diego, CA)

I went to Jane for a while a few years ago and she did wonders for me in terms of how I have relationships now.  I used to have a lot of difficulties in relationships (I'll spare you the details) and now I'm in a great relationship.  I think a lot of my being able to be in a great relationship now is because of the work I did with her and clearing beliefs that I had based on my past.  She's very good at clearing that sort of thing (things from the past) and letting you live with a new, healthier kind of freedom."  (M.C. San Diego, CA)

"Jane,  Earlier today I enjoyed a birthday dinner with (friend). I was wondering if any triggers might surface. Well guess what - zip, zero. At least during this two hour visit everything was fine. And I believe it will carry on as a result of our work.  I noticed that he made statements and comments that previously set me off.  When observing and interacting with others, I have a new overall awareness of myself that is different than before.  It's really quite pleasant and peaceful.  Thanks," (J.B., San Diego, CA)

" Largely in credit to you, Jane, I'm feeling this renewal. I'm feeling this deep level of contentment that's in me. It's reflected in us, too, my relationship with K.J. [her partner]. Things that would have in the past got me all ruffled and bent out of shape, and turned into an agitated scene is now just looking like another possibility for growth. And I'm really noticing when we're able to do that and actually disagree with each other in a way that doesn't upset each other. We've in the past have had so many disagreements that have turned into just really feeling hurt. It had so much more of my personal value attached to it. And now I feel a sense of personal value that is very confident and very light. There's a lot of lightness." (S.M., Carlsbad, CA)

"We're both moving in the space where we're able to have our discussions, without having them turn into ugliness. Before there was just almost waiting for the spots, so we can get angry about it, and have an argument about it, and me just knowing I'm going to be misunderstood, and not agreed with on it. And there's something going on there now, where we're talking and I'll say, at least as far as I'm concerned, I'll say the exact same thing I used to say, and S.M [his partner] will go, "Oh, yeah, I got it." And I'm like, "What a relief! I don't have to go over that one again." It's either the way I'm saying it or the way she's hearing it. Whatever it is it's working nicely. It's probably a little bit of both." (K.J., Carlsbad, CA) "And we give you credit every time. We thank you, Jane, for helping us." (S.M., Carlsbad, CA)